Don't forget sunglasses (even for the ceremony - it will be outside), a swimsuit (Harvest Inn has two pools), and sunscreen (it can get really hot in Napa during the summer - it was 105 last weekend but is expected to be in the 80s for the wedding).

If you're flying in, SFO is a 2-3 hour drive from Harvest Inn. You'll want to rent a car, or find someone else who did.

Note that traffic in Napa can be quite congested and travel times vary widely, so please allow extra time to get around.

Harvest Inn: Stay at the Harvest Inn with us! $339/night if you say you're with us (book soon before they run out). Call 707-963-9463. More info at http://www.harvestinn.com/.

El Bonita Motel: a 3-minute walk away. $150/night. Book at http://www.elbonita.com/